If you aspire to go to Japan for your further studies, there are numerous reasons why you should follow your instincts. Nepali students studying in Japan say that the country has a welcoming environment for international students. They describe Japanese students as ‘very friendly’ and ‘ready to assist the new-comers to do well in the academics’. Along with that, the education system does not require the students to indulge in rote learning and they get a platform to explore the creative sides of themselves. These and many other plus points, according to the students, will overshadow the shortcomings of compulsory proficiency in Japanese language, which many Japanese universities require.

However, if you don’t wish to spend time learning the Japanese language and still want to study in Japan, there are a few universities in the country that regulate courses in English, too. In these universities, international students can focus on their subjects without having to work hard on the language.

Alisha Tuladhar, 20, is a third year student at College of International Management, Ritsumeikan Asia Pacific University in Oita, Japan. She shares that the students don’t need any Japanese language skills as all the courses in the university she’s studying in are available in English and the professors hail from English-speaking countries too.

“My current Strategic Management class is taught by a German professor and Accounting by a Canadian. Many seminars are also conducted by foreign intellects,” she says. With about 50 per cent international students from about 80 different countries, making friends with people from all over the world is fun, she adds. “The university life is full of activities and everybody is involved in various circles, multi-cultural weeks, and many other activities besides academics,” Alisha further elaborates.

A representative from the Japan Resource Center at the Embassy of Japan in Panipokhari, Kathmandu shares that most international students go to Japan to study Science, Engineering, Medicine and Pharmacy. However, other programs like Liberal Arts, International Relations, Humanities and Social Sciences are also equally looked up to in Japan.
Another reason to choose Japan for your higher studies is the scholarships available. Many government and private universities provide scholarships and awards for the eligible students.

“I have received three scholarships till date. One, the university has granted me an 80 per cent tuition fee waiver for all the four years of my study period. The other one is from Japanese Student Services Organization (JASSO), which granted me living cost for six months. And the third one is from ANDO Momofuku Award. The award is given to students who do very well in their academics and extracurricular activities,” shares Alisha.

Besides, students are also allowed to work part time. “We are allowed to work 28 hours a week and get paid 750 Yen per hour, meaning the students can quite easily manage their living cost. I’m personally more involved in in-campus jobs and don’t have a part time work elsewhere. Almost all Nepali students here have part time jobs and are paying their own bills, without having to ask from their parents back home,” Alisha informs.



In the same way, Gaurav Basnyat, 26, completed his postgraduate degree in Business Administration from Japan, and is now back in Nepal, currently working with Avionté Solutions – a US based software company. About his experience of studying in Japan, he shares, “Studying in Doshisha University was a wonderful experience indeed. The university is a hub for students from all over the world, coming together to widen the horizon of their knowledge. MBA program there includes interesting subjects that help the students become more creative. The studies focus on sustainability of business, and its environment friendly operation. Students can also gain lot of ideas about transforming cultural aspects into business, which can become more profitable.”

However, good education system is not the only positive aspect of studying in Japan. Gaurav further shares that one can learn a lot about the corporate culture, as the education there focuses on making the students disciplined, polite, humble and punctual, and to believe in process-oriented work. “The students also learn the significance of working for the benefit of the whole society,” he adds.

Similarly, Nirmal Raj Joshi, 28, went to Japan six months ago, after working as a Project Engineer at Sanima Hydro and Engineering Pvt Ltd Nepal. He’s equally satisfied with the studying environment of Japan. A student of Structural Material in Saitama University, Saitama Prefecture, Nirmal says, “The structural material laboratory here deals with the design of construction materials (like concrete, steel, etc). I chose this subject to learn about the wise and economic selection of engineering materials by knowing their properties in details. And in Japan, it is taught very thoroughly.”

The courses require extensive research rather than focusing on theoretical books. And students have to spend most of their time in laboratory and experiment rooms, which makes studying all the more fun. The Japan engineering graduates, also readily get jobs in the local engineering companies of Japan, right after the completion of their studies. “This has encouraged the engineering students from all over the world to get enrolled in the university here,” Nirmal says.

For a football lover like him, good news is that he gets to participate in football matches that are held frequently and that serves as leisure. Even though the classes in the university he’s studying are conducted in English, he’s currently taking Japanese language classes to ease his communication with the Japanese people.
Contact the Embassy to learn about the visa process.

If you aspire to go to Japan for your further studies, there are numerous reasons why you should follow your instincts. Nepali students studying in Japan say that the country has a welcoming environment for international students. They describe Japanese students as ‘very friendly’ and ‘ready to assist the new-comers to do well in the academics’. Along with that, the education system does not require the students to indulge in rote learning and they get a platform to explore the creative sides of themselves. These and many other plus points, according to the students, will overshadow the shortcomings of compulsory proficiency in Japanese language, which many Japanese universities require.

However, if you don’t wish to spend time learning the Japanese language and still want to study in Japan, there are a few universities in the country that regulate courses in English, too. In these universities, international students can focus on their subjects without having to work hard on the language.

Alisha Tuladhar, 20, is a third year student at College of International Management, Ritsumeikan Asia Pacific University in Oita, Japan. She shares that the students don’t need any Japanese language skills as all the courses in the university she’s studying in are available in English and the professors hail from English-speaking countries too.

“My current Strategic Management class is taught by a German professor and Accounting by a Canadian. Many seminars are also conducted by foreign intellects,” she says. With about 50 per cent international students from about 80 different countries, making friends with people from all over the world is fun, she adds. “The university life is full of activities and everybody is involved in various circles, multi-cultural weeks, and many other activities besides academics,” Alisha further elaborates.

A representative from the Japan Resource Center at the Embassy of Japan in Panipokhari, Kathmandu shares that most international students go to Japan to study Science, Engineering, Medicine and Pharmacy. However, other programs like Liberal Arts, International Relations, Humanities and Social Sciences are also equally looked up to in Japan.
Another reason to choose Japan for your higher studies is the scholarships available. Many government and private universities provide scholarships and awards for the eligible students.

“I have received three scholarships till date. One, the university has granted me an 80 per cent tuition fee waiver for all the four years of my study period. The other one is from Japanese Student Services Organization (JASSO), which granted me living cost for six months. And the third one is from ANDO Momofuku Award. The award is given to students who do very well in their academics and extracurricular activities,” shares Alisha.

Besides, students are also allowed to work part time. “We are allowed to work 28 hours a week and get paid 750 Yen per hour, meaning the students can quite easily manage their living cost. I’m personally more involved in in-campus jobs and don’t have a part time work elsewhere. Almost all Nepali students here have part time jobs and are paying their own bills, without having to ask from their parents back home,” Alisha informs.



In the same way, Gaurav Basnyat, 26, completed his postgraduate degree in Business Administration from Japan, and is now back in Nepal, currently working with Avionté Solutions – a US based software company. About his experience of studying in Japan, he shares, “Studying in Doshisha University was a wonderful experience indeed. The university is a hub for students from all over the world, coming together to widen the horizon of their knowledge. MBA program there includes interesting subjects that help the students become more creative. The studies focus on sustainability of business, and its environment friendly operation. Students can also gain lot of ideas about transforming cultural aspects into business, which can become more profitable.”

However, good education system is not the only positive aspect of studying in Japan. Gaurav further shares that one can learn a lot about the corporate culture, as the education there focuses on making the students disciplined, polite, humble and punctual, and to believe in process-oriented work. “The students also learn the significance of working for the benefit of the whole society,” he adds.

Similarly, Nirmal Raj Joshi, 28, went to Japan six months ago, after working as a Project Engineer at Sanima Hydro and Engineering Pvt Ltd Nepal. He’s equally satisfied with the studying environment of Japan. A student of Structural Material in Saitama University, Saitama Prefecture, Nirmal says, “The structural material laboratory here deals with the design of construction materials (like concrete, steel, etc). I chose this subject to learn about the wise and economic selection of engineering materials by knowing their properties in details. And in Japan, it is taught very thoroughly.”

The courses require extensive research rather than focusing on theoretical books. And students have to spend most of their time in laboratory and experiment rooms, which makes studying all the more fun. The Japan engineering graduates, also readily get jobs in the local engineering companies of Japan, right after the completion of their studies. “This has encouraged the engineering students from all over the world to get enrolled in the university here,” Nirmal says.

For a football lover like him, good news is that he gets to participate in football matches that are held frequently and that serves as leisure. Even though the classes in the university he’s studying are conducted in English, he’s currently taking Japanese language classes to ease his communication with the Japanese people.
Contact the Embassy to learn about the visa process.

 12 Secrets of being Happy!

ACCEPT WHAT YOU HAVE Research shows that happy people have modest levels of expectation and aspirations — they want what they can get — while unhappy people never seem to get what they want. They also know how to avoid disappointments and how to generate pleasant surprises. This is because they strive for realistic goals and are happy with their lot. As Dr Jose de Jesus Garcia Vega, of the University of Monterrey, Mexico, confirms, we must accept things as they come. ‘We spend a lot of time complaining about the things that happen to us, but this is a waste of time and effort,’ he says. ‘To be happy, we need to enjoy what we have.’ ENJOY WHAT YOU DO
Happy people do what they enjoy and enjoy what they do — and don’t do it for the money or glory. There’s no point being stuck in a job you hate, surrounded by unfriendly colleagues just because the money is good — people forget that they are allowed to be happy at work, too. Many spend the best years of their lives trying to make money, sacrificing their health and family in the process, says Dr Garcia Vega. Later, they spend the same money they made working trying to recover their lost health and estranged family. LIVE FOR TODAY Don’t dwell on the past, on things that went wrong or previous failures. Similarly, don’t dream about an idealised future that doesn’t exist or worry about what hasn’t happened yet. Happy people live for the now; they have positive mind sets. If you can’t be happy today, what makes you think tomorrow will be different? CHOOSE HAPPINESS Don’t be afraid to step back and re-evaluate your goals. Imagine your life as a story that you can edit and revise as you go along. This kind of flexible approach requires positive thinking and an open mind — you need to actively choose to be happy. She found that ‘voluntarists’ (people who feel they have free choice and complete control over their life) were happier than fatalists (people who think little can be changed by personal intervention). ‘You always have the freedom to choose the manner in which you wish to approach any given situation,’ says Dr Garcia Vega.This theory is backed up by Ingrida Geciene of Vilnius University, Lithuania, who researched the happiness of people in 31 European countries. Luckily for us, Northern European countries contain more voluntarists while Latin European countries such as Spain and Italy have a higher percentage of fatalists. RELATIONSHIPS We get our happiness from other people, and from supporting other people. Remember that just as other people can make us happy, we are all ‘other people’ to someone else. And cherish people who are important to you. Research also shows that married people are happier than single people. STAY BUSY If you want to be happier, develop an outgoing, social personality — accept that drinks invitation, join the walking club, book group or choir. The best way to savour pleasure is in the company of others. Build a rich social life, says Eunkook M. Suh, a psychology professor at Yonsei University in Seoul, not as an obligation, but because it is rewarding, meaningful and fun. Active, busy, social people are the healthiest and happiest, in society. Get involved: make your motto ‘use it or lose it.’ Ambition is healthy and makes people happy, explains Claudia Senik, a professor at the University of Paris-Sorbonne, but envy makes them unhappy. Yet comparisons with others can spoil the benefits of ambition and are only useful if you learn something from them. Focus on your goals and dreams so you can enjoy your ambition and achievements.DON'T COMPARE BE YOURSELF Just as you shouldn’t compare yourself with others, it’s important not to worry about what others think about you — then you can truly be yourself. Happy people are spontaneous, natural and real; they say what they think and feel, and aren’t concerned what others think of them. Being oneself makes one feel free and authentic. STOP WORRYING Don’t take yourself too seriously. Happy people don’t worry and they recognise that 90 per cent of worries never come true. GET ORGANISED You might envy those laid-back bohemian types who just do things on the spur of the moment, but don’t be fooled. Happy people plan and organise, they have goals and a purpose. You can only get what you want or desire if you know what it is you want or desire in the first place. So while those chilled-out friends might seem happy, they’re actually just drifting along. THINK POSITIVE Bottling up emotions and bad feelings creates psychological distress and physical discomfort. Happy people get things off their chest, their motto is: get rid of it, or it will get rid of you. Similarly, work at developing optimistic thinking; happy people always look on the bright side. Successful athletes know to focus on winning, not losing, explains Miriam Akhtar, one of the first positive psychologists in the UK. We need to switch from a negative, glass-half-empty outlook to a glass-half-full and put optimism into practice to be happiest. Optimism is the mind’s natural self-defence mechanism against depression. VALUE HAPPINESS Happiness can be learned, but finding meaning and a purpose in life is what leads to it, not the other way around. The happiest people appreciate and realise that being happy adds years to their life, and life to their years. Extracted from The World Book Of Happiness by Leo Bormans, published by Marshall Cavendish at £19.99. © 2011 Leo Bormans. To order a copy for £16.99 (p&p free)
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                भिडियो हेर्न तल बक्स को बीच मा क्लिक गर्नुहोला

Being a blogger you must be aware with the fact that Google changes its policies after a short period of time. It is done to punish the spammers who apply black hat SEO techniques on their blog to rank high in search results. After each update, you can notice a change in website’s page ranking in search results. Blogs that have applied white hat SEO techniques rank higher in search engines. Even these policies changes very frequently but if you go through the policies then you will come to know that some of the policies are always same. They have never changed. So, in today post we’ll discuss about Universal SEO Tips for Google that every blogger must know. This will be a beginner’s guide so that you can learn every aspect of white hat SEO from starting.

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Optimizing Blog for Search Engines

Below I am going to mention those tips which are always same and work to improve blog rankings. There are lot of things that you need to learn but first start with these basic tips because even they are basic but most effective too. You can’t ignore them if you really want better results of your hard work.

    You Might also Like: 6 Blogger Optimization Tips For SEO – Ultimate Guide!
Publish High Quality Content
When you write post for your blog, make sure that you publish high quality content. It should be keyword rich with at most 3% of keyword density. Also assure that you only publish original content to your blog. It should not be copied from anywhere otherwise Google will punish you for that and you lose your rankings in search results.

Target Specific Keyword

In tip #1, I told to write keyword rich article. Except this you must focus on your keywords. Always focus a single keyword in a post. If you target more than one keyword in single post then it will create a fuss in your article that confuses the search engines. You will be penalized your over SEO or Black Hat SEO.

    Advanced Tip: How to Improve Keywords Ranking in Google?

Catchy Post Titles

Your post titles should be catchy and must contain your main keyword. Don’t forget to add unique description to all of your posts. Post titles and description is the only thing appears in search results that force the visitors to click on your link to read the entire story.
Except this you must work on your blog to optimize post titles. You must check below tutorial to optimize your post titles.

    Must Read: Show Post Title Before Blog Title in Blogger

Optimize Images

If possible then try to insert an image related to topic of the post. It will not only make your content more presentable and stylish but also help to improve its rankings in search results. But you must care about image optimization techniques for better SEO of your posts. I have published a detailed article on this topic. You must check it out for complete information.

If you have original and SEO friendly content in your blog, then no doubt you can surely get high ranking in search results. Writing SEO friendly blog posts is not much tough as beginners think. We just need to focus on some places where we can add keywords in our blog posts to make them optimized for search engines. Don’t forget, optimizing blog posts for search engines is not mean to compromise with content quality. We have to add keywords in a proper way so that it looks natural for our readers and for search engines too. I’ll outline 6 best locations to add keywords in blogger blog posts. Hope you would like to know them.
Keywords in Blogger Posts

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Optimize Blog Posts By Adding Keywords Smartly

Before I cover today’s topic, you must need to know that adding too much keywords in blog posts is not good for our blog health. We should keep it’s density below 3% for better optimization of our blog posts.

The locations I’m going to tell you to add keywords are the safest and best locations of our blog area. If you want to get your blog posts rank high in search results, then don’t miss to target below locations:
1# Starting and Ending Para of Content

Whenever you write new post for your blog, always remember to add your main keyword in first and last paragraph of your content’s. Both the locations are best for this purpose and search engines also look for keywords in these two places to decide the ranking of our blog posts.

We can add more targeted words in the form of phrases between the content to make it more SEO friendly.

Note: Don’t use same words again and again. Better to use multiple and relevant words. Using multiple related word not only protect our content from keyword stuffing penalty but also help it to appear high with multiple search terms. Hence more targeted traffic to our blog.. :)
2# Image Name, Alt Tag and Title Tag

We all know that images plays best role in explanation of the topic. But using images we can also optimize our blog posts even better.

We just need to optimize our images before inserting them into our posts. The better we optimize the images, the better our posts will optimize for search engines. Read below mentioned post to know best 6 ways to optimize images.

    6 Tips To Optimize Images For SEO

If we talk about adding targeted words in blog posts using images, then let me tell you that image’s name, title tag and alt tag are the best and prominent places. I had covered this topic in very depth with full explanation in below mentioned post. Don’t forget to read it.

    Add Title and Alt Attribute To Optimize Images For SEO

3# Title Of Our Posts

Our post titles are the top most places to add our targeted keywords. You may listen that we should use catchy post titles to attract more readers. But with catchy post titles we should also remember to add our keywords there.

Meaningful post titles grab more audience. Not only from social sharing sites, but from search engines too.

So, always try to use meaningful and catchy post titles to boost your posts traffic.

4# Permalink of Posts

Permalink is the URL of our blog posts. It’s a killer location to add really targeted keywords.

By default, permalinks create on the basis of our post’s titles. But we can use our custom permalinks to add our keywords.

To add custom permalinks go to your Post Editor > click on Permalink from the right side menu and choose Custom Permalink. Add your main keywords there and press Done button.
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Note: Always try to use only targeted keywords in permalinks. Other non important words should be ignored.
5# Post Labels

Post labels not only used to categorize our blog posts. If used smartly then we can take their benefits to optimize our blog posts too.

Stop using non keyword rich names for your labels. Named them correctly and put your really targeted words there.

If you had forgetten to insert your keywords in label’s name, then don’t worry. We can rename them too. Read below tutorial for very easy steps.

    How To Rename Labels in Blogger?

6# Post Comments

Many bloggers are unaware with this trick that we can use our blog comments too to add some keywords in our blog posts.

Yes, you heard it right. There are lot of benefits of blog comments and if we use them effectively then no doubt we can get higher ranking in search results.

Whenever you reply your reader’s comment on your blog, try to add some keyword phrases in your reply in a natural way that looks obvious while reading.

Note: Instead of adding your focused words try to use some long tail keywords in your comment section. In that way you can improve your keywords ranking too.
Final Words!

This is my strategy to add keywords in blogger blog posts. And truly said these methods really help me to gain higher rankings in search results. I had shared all the working ways to optimize blog posts.

Now I would like to ask you a question: How you add your keywords in your posts for SEO?

Please share your experience with me and my readers via comments. Your comment can help many other bloggers. And if you think my post was something worth reading, then please share it with your social media friends. Sharing is Caring! Right?

२९ कलेजको भर्ना रोक
कारबाहीमा परेका संस्थाको नाम सार्वजनिक नहुँदा विद्यार्थी अन्योलमा
सीटीईभीटीको लिष्टमा भएकामामात्रै भर्ना गर्न आग्रह
काठमाडौं, असार ७ - प्राविधिक शिक्षा तथा व्यावसायिक तालिम परिषद् (सीटीईभीटी) ले पूर्वाधार नपुगेको भन्दै आफूसम्बद्ध २९ कलेजमा तत्काललाई विद्यार्थी भर्ना रोकेको छ । अनुगमनका क्रममा डिप्लोमा तथा प्रमाणपत्र तह र टीएसएलसी अध्यापन गराउने २९ संस्थाहरू मापदण्डविपरीत भेटेपछि सीटीईभीटीले यस्तो कारबाही गरेको हो ।
सीटीईभीटीका स्तर निर्धारण महाशाखा प्रमुख विष्णु कोइरालाले पूर्वाधार नपुगेका संस्थाको नाम साताभित्र सार्वजनिक गर्ने बताए । पूर्वाधार पूरा गर्न एक महिनाको समया अवधि तोकिएको छ । उक्त अवधिमा पनि नगरे यस वर्षको कार्यक्रमसमेत सञ्चालन नपाउने उनले बताए । 'पुनः अध्ययन गर्न जाँदा मापदण्ड पूरा गरेको पाइए विद्यार्थी भर्ना गर्न पाउँछन्,' उनले भने, 'हेलचेक्रयाई गर्छन् भने कार्यक्रम सञ्चालनसमेत गर्न पाउँदैनन् ।' संस्था नवीकरण गर्नुअघि तोकिएको पूर्वाधार पूरा गरेको हुनुपर्छ ।
पूर्वाधार पूरा नगर्नेमा नाम चलेको नर्सिङ कलेज पनि छन् । सीटीईभीटीले पूर्वाधार नपुगेको भन्दै नर्सिङ र एचएतर्फ मेडिकल इन्स्टिच्युट लाहान, मोडल कलेज अफ टेक्निकल एजुकेसन वीरगञ्ज, च्छोरोल्पा नर्सिङ कलेज दोलखा, बालकुमारी कलेज चितवन, ओसिस मेडिकल कलेज भरतपुर, चितवन हेल्थ फाउन्डेसन एन्ड रिसर्च सेन्टर चितवन, नागरिक सामुदायिक टिचिङ अस्पतालले सञ्चालन गरेको एएनपीसी हेल्थ साइन्स कलेज कौसलटार, काठमाडौं नर्सिङ क्याम्पस बसुन्धारा, होप इन्टरनेसनल एकाडेमी सातदोबाटो, स्टार एकाडेमी ललितपुुरलाई यस वर्षको भर्ना गर्न तत्काल रोक लगाएको छ ।
त्यस्तै इन्जिनियरिङतर्फ स्कुल अफ जिओम्याटिक बानेश्वर, सिद्धार्थ टेक्निकल इन्स्टिच्युट बुटवललाई पनि विद्यार्थी भर्नामा प्रतिबन्ध लगाएको छ । होमियोप्याथि विषय पढाउने भक्तपुरको सेन्ट्रल फर अलटरनेटिभ टिचिङ हेयलिङ, डेन्डल पढाउने पोखराको कान्तिपुर इन्स्टिच्युट अफ हेल्थ साइन्स, फार्मेसी अध्ययन गराउने पोखराकै वेस्ट हेल्थ साइन्स एकाडेमी, आयुर्वेद पढाउने जाउलाखेलको नेपाल आयुर्वेद एकाडेमीमा पनि विद्यार्थी भर्ना गर्न दिएको छैन ।
सीटीईभीटीले तीन वर्षे डिप्लोमा तहको एक सय ६० संस्थाको नाम, ठेगाना, पढाउने विषय र कोटासहित सूचना प्रकाशित गरेको छ । उक्त लिस्टमा भएकोबाहेक अन्यमा अहिलेलाई भर्ना प्रक्रिया अघि नबढाउन उसले अभिभावक र विद्यार्थीलाई आग्रह गरेको छ । '०७०/७१ का लागि नवीकरण भई नयाँ भर्ना गरी कार्यक्रम सञ्चालन गर्न अनुमित दिइएका शिक्षण संस्थाबाहेक अन्यत्र भर्ना फाराम नबुझाउन सबैलाई आग्रह गर्दछौं,' कोइरालाले भने ।
तोकिएको समयमा पूर्वाधार पूरा गरेमा पुनः भर्ना गर्न सीटीईभीटीले सूचना जारी गर्ने व्यवस्था छ । अधिकांश नर्सिङ कलेजको आफ्नै अस्पताल छैन । अनुगमनका क्रममा अधिकांशमा कक्षा कोठा, ल्याब, लाइब्रेरी मापदण्डअनुसार नपाइएको सीटीईभीटीले जनाएको छ । नर्सिङ अध्ययन गराउनेको चाहिँ विद्यार्थी अनुपातमा अस्पतालमा बिरामी छैनन् । अनुगमनमा खटिएका अधिकारीका अनुसार स्वास्थ्य संकायको नर्सिङ, एचए, फार्मेसीलगायतको संकायमा प्रयोगशाला व्यवस्थित नभएको, प्रयोगात्मक गर्न प्रयोग गरिने सामान नचल्ने, पुरानो प्रविधिको पाइएको छ । बजारमा नयाँ प्रविधिको प्रयोग भए पनि विद्यार्थीलाई सिकाउने सामान पुरानै छन् ।
सीटीईभीटीले त्यस्ता शिक्षालयको नाम सार्वजनिक नगर्दा विद्यार्थी कहाँ भर्ना गर्ने नगर्ने अन्योलमा छन् । सीटीईभीटीले नाम सार्वजनिक गर्न नचाहनुले उनीहरूको नियतमाथि शंका उब्जेको छ । पदाधिकारीले कारबाहीका नाममा पैसाको चलखेल सुरु गरेको अधिकारीहरूको भनाइ छ । कारबाहीमा परेको संस्थामा पनि विद्यार्थीलाई भर्ना फाराम दिएका छन् ।

सुनसरीको अमाहीबेला-७ स्थित एभरेस्ट साइन्स सेन्टरमा ३ अर्ब ७५ करोड वर्ष पुरानो चन्द्रमाको टुक्राको एकमहिने प्रदर्शनी मंगलबार प्रारम्भ भएको छ। संयुक्त राज्य अमेरिकाको बहुप्रतिष्ठित संस्था नासाबाट ल्याइएको १ सय २० ग्राम वजन -तौल) को उक्त चट्टानलाई विराटनगर विमानस्थलबाट कडा सुरक्षाका बीच साइन्स सेन्टरमा पुर्‍याइएको थियो।

साइन्स सेन्टरका अध्यक्ष डा. दिलीप अधिकारीको नेतृत्वमा गएको टोलिले मेयरबसाल्ट नामको उक्त चट्टान विराटनगर ल्याएपछि प्रहरीको सुरक्षामा साइन्स सेन्टरमा प्रदर्शनीमा राखिएको छ। एक महिनासम्म सञ्चालन हुने विज्ञान प्रदर्शनीमा उक्त चट्टान दैनिक सयौंले अवलोकन गरिरहेको आयोजक साइन्स सेन्टरका अध्यक्ष अधिकारीले जानकारी दिए।

आयोजक साइन्स सेन्टरले एक महिना लामो प्रदर्शनीका क्रममा उक्त चट्टानलाई नेपाल र भारतका गरी १० लाख मानिसले अवलोकन गर्ने अपेक्षा गरेको छ। पहिलो पटक चन्द्रमा टेक्ने अमेरिकी अन्तरिक्षयात्री नील आर्मस्टङको स्मृति दिवस -जन्मजयन्ती) को अवसर पारेर चन्द्रमाको टुक्रा प्रदर्शनी गरिएको सेन्टरले जनाएको छ।

चट्टान प्रदर्शनको सुरक्षाका लागि दैनिक २० जना सशस्त्र र निजी सुरक्षा गार्ड खटाइएको सेन्टरका अध्यक्ष अधिकारीले जानकारी दिए। चट्टानको सुरक्षाका लागि सेन्टरको चारै दिशामा क्लोज क्यामेरा जडान गरिएको छ। चट्टान हेर्न आउनेहरूले शान्तिवनमा डुंगा चढ्न, पिकनिक खान, थि्रडी फिल्म हेर्न एवं भौतिक, जीव तथा रसायन विज्ञानको प्रदर्शनी अवलोकन गर्न पाउनेछन्।

Hugo Schwyzer is insane and is also a college professor, and one imagines his employer using this in a promotional campaign: “Pasadena City College: You Don’t Have to Be Crazy to Teach Here, But It Helps!”

Professor Schwyzer’s madness suddenly burst forth as headline news this month after he first announced that he was quitting the Internet and told L.A. Weekly he had suffered a “mental breakdown.”  But then the professor went on Twitter and began spewing out a series of bizarre confessions, admitting that he was off his medication. His weird online meltdown inspired concerns for Professor Schwyzer’s safety and he was hospitalized again. He told the Daily Beast that he had been to the psychiatric ward three times in the past month and had suicidal thoughts. He told a Daily Caller reporter that he had made a “serious” suicide attempt.

As spectacular as his manic disintegration was, there had been clear warning signs for years that Professor Schwyzer was a sex-crazed lunatic. However, the red flags of mental illness were evidently ignored by the administration of Pasadena City College and Professor Schwyzer’s peers, perhaps because sex-crazed lunatics have become so commonplace in 21st-century academia.

More than two centuries have passed since the statesman Edmund Burke beheld the French Revolution and defended British conservatism:  “We are not converts of Rousseau; we are not disciples of Voltaire. Atheists are not our preachers; madmen are not our lawgivers.” What Burke said of England in 1790 cannot be said of America in 2013, where atheists and madmen and the disciples of radical philosophers hold high office and other positions of prestige. Nowhere do these radicals enjoy more influence than in our nation’s institutions of higher education. We need look no farther than Chicago, where erstwhile fugitive bomber Bill Ayers now collects a pension from the University of Illinois system as a retired professor of education. Ayers was denied the title of “professor emeritus” because he once co-authored a terrorist manifesto that was dedicated to several comrades in the “anti-imperialist” struggle, including Robert F. Kennedy’s assassin Sirhan Sirhan. However, another of Ayers’ radical comrades is now President of the United States, so we can’t say the disciples of atheist madmen are without influence.

Among other radical causes, Ayers and his fellow Marxists in the Weather Underground were sexual revolutionaries, invoking the slogan “Smash Monogamy” to justify their occasional orgies and multiple short-term liaisons with partners of both sexes. Haphazardly screwing around failed to overthrow capitalism, but their rhetoric of politically inspired perversion had an impact, especially within the campus milieu where their anti-American ideology had been nurtured in the 1961s. College faculties had for decades harbored ideologues of deviance, including the famous fraud Professor Alfred Kinsey of Indiana University, whose methodologically flawed studies became the “scientific” basis of the sexual revolution, and Marxist theoretician Herbert Marcuse, who taught at Columbia, Harvard, and Brandeis. Marcuse has been called the “father” of the 1960s New Left movement; his books Eros and Civilization and One-Dimensional Man (1964) can most easily be understood as a synthesis of Marx and Freud, and popularized the Left’s now-common conflation of sexual and political “repression.”

Whereas Freud had understood the need to repress chaotic sexual impulses, however, Marcuse encouraged the view that industrial capitalist culture led to an “inauthentic” sexuality, so that sexual “liberation” was a necessary component of the radical agenda. This was by no means a new idea; Karl Marx’s colleague Freidrich Engels in 1885 published The Origin of the Family, Private Property and the State, identifying the traditional family as the fundamental basis of the capitalist order. Marcuse’s colleague Theodor Adorno was lead author of a notorious 1950 study, The Authoritarian Personality, which depicted traditional families as the breeding grounds of a crypto-fascist menace. It is perhaps not an insignificant coincidence that The Authoritarian Personality was a project of the University of California at Berkeley, where Adorno’s co-authors Daniel Levinson and Nevitt Sanford were members of the psychology faculty, and where the New Left later emerged in the Free Speech Movement of 1964.

The spirit of those 1960s radicals, who often waved the Viet Cong flag in their anti-war protests, nowadays marches under the rainbow banner of sexual liberation. No one on the 21st-century campus can disapprove of homosexuality without being branded a hater, and the rhetoric of the gay rights agenda is nowhere more fanatically espoused or officially endorsed than at America’s colleges and universities. Militant homosexuality coexists with militant feminism on campus; for example, the Women’s Studies department at DePauw University offers a course called “Queer Theory, Queer Lives.” New York University’s Center for the Study of Gender and Sexuality is directed by Professor Ann Pellegrini, a Harvard alumna who lists “queer theory” first among her areas of research; the center has in the past year hosted events on “Queer Africa,” “Queer Asia” and “A New Queer Agenda.” The overlap of feminism and “queer theory” is not accidental. “Feminism is the theory; lesbianism is the practice,” pioneering feminist Ti-Grace Atkinon proclaimed in 1971, and Professor Bettina Aptheker, who teaches Feminist Studies at the University of California-Santa Cruz, has proclaimed that lesbianism is the “highest state of feminism.”

Given the prevailing norms of sexual scholarship in academia, what’s a heterosexual male professor to do? Evidently, Hugo Schwyzer’s solution was to declare himself a progressive feminist and teach classes on pornography. He carved out a career in the field of gender studies despite the fact that his degree was in medieval history. “My mother was a second-wave feminist,” Schwyzer said in a 2011 interview. “I was raised in the 1970s with ‘Ms. Magazine’ on the coffee table and strong feminist values--- I took my first women’s studies course early in my college career--- I fell in love with women’s studies. But I was leery about majoring in it in the mid-1980s. I didn’t know any guys who did that. So I took a lot of gender-themed classes and majored in history instead.” 

While still working toward his Ph.D. at UCLA, he was hired at Pasadena City College in 1993 and showed his “strong feminist values” by having sex with college girls. “Before 1998 I slept with two dozen female students, somewhere in there, it’s a ballpark thing,” he told the Daily Beast last week. “That ended when I had a similar but not as bad a breakdown to the one I had now. When I got sober, I made amends to the college and swore off sleeping with students.”

By the time Hugo Schwyzer “got sober” at age 31, he had already been divorced twice, and had recently been dumped by an 18-year-old student, which “sent me spiraling rapidly downward.” He attempted murder-suicide with an ex-girlfriend, a stripper and fellow addict he had met in rehab two years earlier. None of this, however, prevented Schwyzer from becoming a tenured professor with an annual salary of more than $90,000, a published author and columnist featured at The Atlantic and at the feminist site Jezebel.com. Evidently, no one bothered to check Schwyzer’s credentials as a self-proclaimed “expert on body image, sexuality and gender justice.” As he told the Daily Beast, “I pretended regularly to have more credentials than I actually did,” admitting that the ease of his acceptance as “a very well known speaker and writer on feminism” with no more qualification than having taken two undergraduate women’s studies classes was “a little odd.”

In the context of academia, Hugo Schwyzer wasn’t particularly weird. He taught a course listed in the PCC catalog as “Humanities in the Social Sciences,” but which Schwyzer himself called “Navigating Pornography.” In February, when he invited famous male porn performer James Deen to speak to his class, Schwyzer was rebuked for having scheduled what PCC called an “unauthorized… public event.” In announcing cancelation of the event, a PCC official felt obliged to reaffirm the administration’s support for Schwyzer’s “academic freedom within the classroom.” The professor apparently exercised his academic freedom with tremendous zeal. “He started texting sexual messages and pictures of himself… and beginning in January, engaged in extramarital affairs with several women and one man,” the Daily Caller reported. Some of that behavior was revealed in late July, when a porn-industry gossip site reported the text messages (and video of himself masturbating) Schwyzer exchanged with 27-year-old performer Christina Parreira.

Actually, there was a lot odd about Schwyzer’s career, but he may have seemed fairly normal among the lunatic perverts employed by sex-crazed academia nowadays. Three years ago, Columbia University political science Professor David Epstein was arrested for having an incestuous affair with his adult daughter, and subsequently copped a plea deal, but remains employed at the prestigious Ivy League school. One of Epstein’s Columbia faculty colleagues, Professor Theo Sandfort, was for many years affiliated with the Dutch pedophile journal Paidika and is co-author of the 1990 book, Male Intergenerational Intimacy, a “scientific” justification of pederasty. At a Yale University “sensitivity training” workshop in March, bestiality and incest were among the topics in a discussion that the student director of the event explained was intended “to increase compassion for people who may engage in activities that are not what you would personally consider normal.” A survey of the workshop participants found that 9 percent said they had sold sex for money, and 3 percent said they’ve had sex with animals.
 

Of course, Schwyzer was not fired for his crazy perversion. Tenured professors can never be fired. Instead, PCC put him on medical leave, so he’s still collecting his $90,000 salary. His fourth wife left him and the professor is now reportedly recuperating at his mother’s house with the help of five different psychiatric medications. But he is certainly not alone in his madness, which is merely symptomatic of how American academia has lost its collective mind.

घुँडा छोप्ने स्कर्ट लगाउने सरकारी निर्देशन अलपत्र

२४ असार, काठमाडौं । केही महिना पहिले धादिङको एउटा सरकारी स्कूलमा शिक्षकहरुको बैठक बस्यो । बैठकका एजेण्डामध्ये एक थियो-भड्किलो पोशाक लगाउने विद्यार्थीलाई के गर्ने ? ‘छोटो फ्राक (स्कर्ट) लगाएकी छात्रा अगाडि बेञ्चमा बसेकी छ भने पढाउनै समस्या हुन्छ’ एकजना पाका शिक्षकले भने । ‘त्यति मात्र हो र, कतिले त सर्टको माथिल्लो बटम समेत लगाउँदैनन्’ अर्काले थपे-’फेशन नै छोटो लगाउने भैसक्यो, कसरी नियन्त्रण गर्न सकिएला ?
छोटो स्कर्ट लगाउने छात्रा तथा पाइन्ट कम्मरभन्दा तल सार्ने छात्रको कारण विकृति बढेकोमा सबै शिक्षक सहमत भएपनि यसलाई नियन्त्रण गर्ने तत्काल उपाय देखिएन । सरकारले संस्थागत विद्यालयको लागि जारी गरेको पोशाकसम्बन्धी नियम अनुसार गर्ने निर्णय भएर बैठक सकियो । तर सरकारले गएको फागुनमा स्वीकृत गरेको संस्थागत विद्यालय मापदण्ड तथा सञ्चालन निर्देशका धेरै संस्थागत विद्यालयमा पनि लागू भएको छैन
उच्च माध्यमिक विद्यालयको लागि तयार भएको यो निर्देशिका तल्लो कक्षाका विद्यार्थीका लागि पनि लागू हुने सरकारले बताएको छ । यस्तै संस्थागत विद्यालयको लागि भनिएपनि सरकारी विद्यालयको लागि पनि यसले समेट्ने सरकारको बुझाई छ । तर जसको लागि भनेर नियम बनाइएको हो, त्यसले समेत यसको पालना गरेको छैन । ‘गएको वर्ष त निर्देशिका बनेको भएकाले हामीले त्यति चासो दिएनौं, तर यो वर्षदेखि भने लागू गर्नुपर्छ’ उच्च माध्यमिक शिक्षा परिषदका उपसचिव डम्बरकुमार बतासले अनलाइनखबरसित भन्नुभयो-’धेरैले पालना गरेको पाइएको छैन, हामी यसको पनि अनुगमन गर्छौं ।’ तर जथाभावी भर्ना र विज्ञापन नै रोक्न नसकेको सरकारले पोशाकसम्बन्धी नियम कहिलेसम्म पालना गराउन सक्ला, यसै भन्न सकिन्न ।

सरकारले संस्थागत विद्यालयको लागि लागू गरेको पोशाकसम्बन्धी नियम यस्तो छः

· विद्यार्थी पोशाकका रुपमा चुज पाइन्ट प्रयोग गर्न पाइने छैन । पाइन्टको मोता आधारभूत तहका लागि १२-१४ र माध्यमिक तहको लागि १६ इन्च भन्दा कम हुन हुने छैन,

· कम्मर भन्दा कम्तिमा १ इन्च माथि सम्म पाइन्ट/स्कर्ट हुनु पर्नेछ । हिपहप हुने छैन,

· स्कर्टको तल्लो भागको हकमा घुँडा भन्दा कम्तिमा २ इन्च तल सम्म हुनु पर्नेछ,

· नेक भन्दा १ इन्च तल सम्म मात्र सर्टको वटन खोल्न मिल्नेछ । सर्ट भन्दा अन्य पोसाक जस्तै कुर्ता सुरुवाल आदि प्रयोग गर्ने भएमा नेक भन्दा ३ इन्च तल सम्म खुल्ला भएको पोशाक प्रयोग गर्न सकिनेछ,

· कम्मर पेटीको हकमा १.५ इन्च भन्दा कम चौडाई भएको कम्मर पेटी प्रयोग गर्नु पर्नेछ र फेसनेवल प्रकारको पेटिको वकल प्रयोग गर्न पाइने छैन,

· माथिका पोसाकसंग मिल्ने कोट, स्वीटर, ज्याकेट, मफलर तथा जुत्ता मोजा विद्यालयले तोके बमोजिमको रंग र डिजाइनको प्रयोग गर्नु पर्नेछ,

· पोशाकमा टाइ समेत लगाउने व्यवस्था भएको भए टाइको गाँठो नेकसम्म हुनुपर्ने छ, तर टाइ लगाउने वा नलगाउने वा मौसम अनुसार कुन कुन समयमा टाइ लगाउने भन्ने विद्यालयले तय गरे. बमोजिम हुनेछ ,

· संस्थागत विद्यालयहरूले नियमित पोशाकको हकमा हप्तामा सामान्यतया २ किसिमको ड्रेस मात्र विद्यार्थीहरूलाई प्रयोग गर्ने व्यवस्था मिलाउनु पर्ने छ ,

· पोशाक तोक्दा सकेसम्म नेपाली संस्कृति तथा परम्परा सुहाउने खालको पोशाक तोक्नु पर्नेछ र नेपाली उत्पादनका कपडाहरूलाई प्राथमिकता दिनु पर्नेछ ,

· विद्यालयहरूले पोशाक निर्धारण गर्दा मौसम अनृुसार -जाडो, गर्मी) का समयका लागि उपयुक्त हुनुपर्नुछ ,

· विद्यालयबाट निर्धारित डे्रस कोडको नमुना विद्यार्थीलाई उपलब्ध गराउनु पर्नेछ । तोकेको स्थानमा पोशाक खरिद गर्न विद्यार्थीलाई बाध्य गरिने छैन ।

३ वर्षकी बालिकाले के गर्न सक्छिन् भन्ने अपेक्ष गर्छौ हामी ? हामीले सामान्य रूपमा गर्ने आशा भनेको ती बालिकाले क ख वा a b c d लेख्न सकोस् भन्ने मात्र हुन्छ होला ।

तर, एक बालीकाले गरेको कामले हाम्रो सोचाई गलत त होइन् भन्ने कुरालाई समेत एकपटक मष्तिष्कमा प्रहार गर्छ । ३ वर्षीय बालिकाले a b c d होइन् प्रकृतिको रमाईलो वातावरणलाई तस्विरमा उतार्ने गर्छिन् त्यो पनि पेन्टिङ मार्फत । आइरिस हाल्मस नामकी ती बालिकाले बनाएको दुई पेन्टीङ एक व्यक्तिले प्रति पेन्टिङ करिब १५ सय पाउन्डमा किनेका छन् ।

प्रकृतिमा निकै रमाउने आइरिसले प्रकृतिका सुन्दर छटालाई आफ्नो पेन्टिङमा उतार्ने गर्छिन् । फूलैफुलको बगैचाँमा पुगेर होस् या कुनै पार्कमा पुगेर होस् उनी प्रकृतिका अनुपम छटालाई आफ्नो पेन्टिङको विषय बनाउँछिन् ।

तर, बिडम्बना आइरिस बोल्न सक्दिनन् । आफ्ना भावनाहरू मुखले खोल्न सक्दिनन् तर, ती भावनालाई पेन्टिङ मार्फत सबैसामू पोख्न सफल बनेकी छिन् ।

उनी निकै पिडामा रहेको र उनको दु:खले आफूलाई समेत दुखी बनाउने उनकी आमा बताउँछिन् । उनकी आमाका अनुसार उनी बोल्न नसकेको पिडामा यति चिन्तित छिन् कि उनी आफ्नो जिब्रोलाई धेरै बेर सम्म टोक्छिन्, सकेसम्म जिब्रोलाई टोकेर त्यसबाट रगत निकाल्ने प्रयत्न उनी बारम्बार गरिरहन्छिन् ।

हेरौ उनले गरेका केही पेन्टिङका तस्विरहरू…

स्कुलमा जस्तो टाइट डिसिप्लिन छैन । घरको निगरानी खुकुलो हुनेवाला छ । केटी साथीसँगै हिँड्दा हिजोजस्तो कसैले देख्ला कि भनेर डराउनुपर्ने छैन । खल्तीमा मोबाइल हुनेछ । यी र यस्तैले एसएलसीको आइरन गेट नाघेका १६/१७ वर्षे ठिटाठिटीलाई

रोमाञ्चित बनाएको छ ।

नर्भसै भइन्छ, कलेजको पहिलो दिन क्लास छिर्दा हुने फिलिङ्सबारे कुञ्जन श्रेष्ठ ढुक्क छन्, 'चिनेको कोही छैन, नयाँ ठाउँ छ, त्यस्तोमा के नै बोल्न सकिएला ?' आइरन गेट भनिने एसएलसीको लफडाबाट पार भएका ज्ञानोदय बालवाटिकाका यी विद्यार्थी आफ्ना थप दुई साथीसहित कलेजको खोजीमा भौंतारिइरहँदा आगामी दिनबारे घरी निष्पिmक्री देखिए, घरी गम्भीर बने । 

स्कुलमा जस्तो टाइट डिसिप्लिन छैन । घरको निगरानी खुकुलो हुनेवाला छ । केटी साथीसँगै हिँड्दा हिजोजस्तो कसैले देख्ला कि भनेर डराउनुपर्ने छैन । खल्तीमा मोबाइल हुनेछ । यी र यस्तैले एसएलसीको आइरन गेट नाघेका १६/१७ वर्षे ठिटाठिटीलाई रोमाञ्चित बनाएको छ । हरेक कुरामा वाइल्ड हुन पाइन्छ ।

प्यारेन्ट्सको वाच र मोनिटरिङबाट प|mी हुन पाइने आशामा दंगदास छन् विद्यार्थीहरू । तर बेलाबेलामा कलेजको काउन्सिलिङका क्रममा सुनिने शब्दबाट भने उनीहरू सतर्क हुँदै सम्हालिन्छन् र टाउकोमा हात राख्न थाल्छन् । इन्टरनल एक्जाम, डिसिप्लिन इन्चार्ज, कम्प्लेनजस्ता शब्दले निजन, सिजन र प्रज्वलाको ग्रुप बेलाबेला तनावमा हुन्छ ।

'प|mी हुन पाइन्छ, तर रेस्पोन्सिब्लिटी पनि त थपिन्छ नि,' इमाडोलकी सिजन श्रेष्ठले थपिन् । प्लस वान सकेका पनि अब टुवेल्भ यसै गरेर पचाउन सकिन्छ भन्ने कन्पिmडेन्टमा छन् । 'तर त्यति साह्रो चाहिँ हैन है,' अलि प|mी नै छाड्छन् भन्ने भ्रम हटाउनुको कारण खोल्दै इमाडोलकी सिजन श्रेष्ठले हरबखत निगरानी गरिरहने डीआई -डिसिप्लिन इन्चार्ज) लाई त्यसको कारणका रूपमा उभ्याइन् ।

गेटअपदेखि डे्रसअप, नङदेखि कपालसम्मको हेर्ने डीआईको त्रासले कलेजमा पनि स्कुलको झल्को दिइरह्यो । 'पछि इन्डिभिजुअल्ली हामीलाई चिन्न थालेपछि अलि प|mी छाडिदिनुभयो,' क्यास्पियल भ्याली कलेज परिसरमा भेटिएकी यी १७ वर्षेले दायाँबायाँ हेर्दै भनिन्, 'तर घरमा भने उस्तै ।' प्लस टुसँगै सुरु हुने टेन्सन । अब विस्तारै बढ्छ । बालाजुको जनजागृति माविकी सल्मा रानामगर कलेज ज्वाइन नगर्दै रेस्पोन्सिब्लिटी बढेको फिल गर्दैछिन् ।

'लेभल बढ्दै गएपछि आफूलाई पनि म्यानेज गर्नुपर्ने रहेछ, म हिजोको जस्तो त हुनुभएन नि,' सामुदायिक विद्यालयबाट ८२ प्रतिशत ल्याएकी यी छात्राले भनिन्, 'घरबाट केही स्वतन्त्रता पाइन्छ । तर जिम्मेवार भएपछि मात्रै, नत्र त्यस्तै कहाँ खुला छाड्छन् र ?' तर होमवर्क, असाइनमेन्टजस्ता लफडामा फस्न नपर्ने, घरबाट अलि बढी स्वतन्त्रता पाइने हुनाले प्लस टु अलि रमाइलो हुनेमा उनी आशावादी छन् । 'उमेरअनुसार पनि केही खुला हुनु ठीक हो,' उनले भनिन् । वर्षौंदेखि सँगै पढेका र झगडा गरेर हुर्केका सहपाठीलाई टाढिन सकिन्छ । आजीवन नबिर्सने ती याद सँगाल्दै उनीहरू नयाँ साथीसँग मित्रता गाँस्छन् । इमाडोलकै प्रज्वला शाक्यको अनुभवमा यी दुई थरी साथी गज्जबका हुँदारहेछन् । प्लस टु भन्नासाथ ठिटा होस् या ठिटी आफूलाई 'टु' को कल्पनामा पुर्‍याउँछन् ।

झट्ट हेर्दा विपरीत लिंगीप्रति हुने पहिलो आकर्षणको सुरुवाती कालखण्ड यही हो । एकातिर बाल्यकालीन साथीको रिक्तता र नयाँ साथीको चिनाजानले नयाँ वातावरण रमाइलै हुन्छ । 'स्कुले साथी कहिल्यै बिर्सन नसकिने,' हल्का लजाउँदै प्रज्वला बोलिन्, 'तर कलेजका साथीसँग त्योभन्दा बढी फिलिङ्स सेयर गर्न मिल्ने । सेन्टिमेन्टल कुरामा स्कुले साथीसँग तुलना हुन सक्दैन ।'

किन रे भने मोबाइल र च्याटिङको माध्यमबाट मिल्ने साथीसँग म्याक्सिमम फिलिङ सेयर गर्न मिल्छ रे, जुन स्कुल लेभलमा सम्भवै थिएन । विपरीत लिंगीप्रतिको आकर्षण र अन्य कारणले गर्दा कलेजमा भेटिने साथीले पनि कलेज जीवनलाई रमाइलो बनाउँदा रहेछन् । कलेजमा हुने चक्कर, अफेयर र ब्रेक अपको कुरा सुरु हुनासाथ टुवेल्भ पुगेकाका गाला 'राता' भए ।

स्कुलमा कसैले प्रपोज गरे जुत्ताचप्पल फुकाल्न तयार हुने कलेजमा त्यस्तै शैलीको प्रस्तावमा  झम्टिन जानुको साटो हल्का मुस्कुराउन मन लाग्छ रे । 'कि ओके भन्ने, होइन भने राम्रोसँग उसलाई कन्भिन्स गरेर पठाइदिने,' प्रज्वलाको कुरामा सहमति जनाउँदै सिजनले भनिन्, 'किन बेकारमा झगडा गर्नुपर्ने, ऊ केही नभए पनि राम्रो साथी त हुनसक्छ ।'

कलेजको कुरामा रिलेसनसिपको कुरालाई यस्तो वाइड भएर सोचिँदैन रे । रियाक्सनमा हुने यति ठूलो परिवर्तनको कारक स्कुलको भन्दा वाइड एक्टिभिटिज नै हो, भन्छन् उनीहरू । अलि प|mेन्डली खालको लाग्ने सरले पनि त्यही अनुसार काउन्सिलिङ गर्ने भएकाले सजिलो हुन्छ रे । स्कुलमा हुँदा यस्ता समस्यालाई घर पुर्‍याउने सल्मा अब भने आफैं सल्भ गर्नुपर्ने ठान्छिन् ।

अब किन पनि सजिलो हुन्छ रे भने स्कुलमा सर अलि बढी डरलाग्दा हुन्छन् । उनले सुनेअनुसार तर कलेजमा केही प|mेन्डली हुन्छन् रे । स्कुलको तुलनामा कलेजमा युवायुवतीको रूमानी क्रियाकलाप ह्वात्तै बढ्छ । कलेजमा कहिल्यै केटी साथीहरूसँग नबसेका, लामो गफ नगरेका रोशन लिम्बूलाई क्लासमा कुनै अपरिचित किशोरीसँगै बस्नुपर्दा हुने असजिलोपनले अहिल्यैदेखि टोकिरहेको छ, कमिलाले झंै ।

केटी देख्नासाथ भागिहाल्ने उनी कुम जोडेर पढ्नेहरू, क्यान्टिनमा मःम/चाउमिन सेयर गर्ने सुनेर छक्क छन् । 'पोसिबल नै हुँदैन जस्तो लाग्छ,' भर्खरै जुँगाको रेखी बसेको अनुहार खुम्याउँदै उनले भने, 'भोलि कलेजमा थाहा होला, अहिले छाड्दिनुस् यस्तो कुरा ।' तर आजभोलि सिजन र प्रज्वला यो सबै 'केही होइन' भन्ने फिल गर्छन् ।

आफ्नो म्याच्वर्डनेसन बढ्ने भएकाले यो खालको फिलिङ आउनु सल्मालाई स्वाभाविक लाग्दोरहेछ । 'सुरुमा हाम्लाई पनि कम गाह्रो भाथ्यो,' पोहोर साल सम्भिmँदै प्रज्वलाले भनिन्, 'अहिले केटा साथी र हामीबीच केही फरक छैन, नर्मल लाग्छ ।' कलेज लाइफ स्कुलभन्दा कताकता रमाइलो नै हो । पिकनिक, टुरलगायतमा इन्जोय गर्न पाइन्छ । क्लासमा पनि रमाइलो हुन्छ ।

पोहोरसम्म हातमै मोबाइल हुनेले लुकेर एक अर्कालाई रिङ दिनेदेखि म्यासेज पठाउने गर्थे । पोहोरदेखि क्लासमा मोबाइल ब्यान्ड छ । तर जिस्किन र ठट्टनि आइतबार चाहिँदैन । प्रज्वलालाई डीआई बाहेक अरूसँग खासै डर लाग्दोरहेनछ । 'स्कुलमा जस्तो सरले कुटीचाहिँ हाल्दैनन्,' उनले भनिन्, 'क्लासमा हल्ला वा बदमासी गर्‍यो भने कहिलेकाहीँ किताबले प्याट्ट टाउकोमा हान्छन्, त्यत्ति हो ।'

ज्ञानोदयबाट पास आउट भएको निजनको गु्रपका विन्दास दिन सकिँदैछन् । कलेजमा ब्रोसर तेस्र्याउनेले काउन्सिलिङको गफले उनीहरूलाई दिन भोलि '१२ बज्छ' भन्ने थाहा भइसकेको छ । एसएलसीपछिका झन्डै १०० औं दिन विन्दासपूर्वक बिताएका उनले भने, 'अब कता जाने र कस्तो करियर बनाउने, यही दुई वर्षको पढाइले टुंगो लगाउने हो ।'

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तिमीहरूमध्ये कतिले त पढाईमा ध्यान दिएकै छौ र शिक्षकहरूबाट प्रेम पनि पाइरहेका छौ होला । विशेष गरी नौ र दश कक्षामा पढाईको चाप बढी हुन्छ र त्यही बेलामा किशोरीहरूलाई घरधन्दा पनि बढी गर्नुपर्ने हुन्छ । कतिका परिवारका सदस्यले त पढ्नुपर्छ भनेर जाँचको बेलामा र अन्य बेलामा पनि कामको चाप कम गराउँछन् होला । कति जनाको घरमा भने पढेर के हुन्छ र ?, अर्काको घरमा जाने त हो नि झ् भनेर “भो पछि पढेहुन्छ, यति पानी लिएर आइज, वा भाईबहिनीलाई भात पकाऊ”, भनेर पढाईको समयमा पढ्न नदिएका पनि होलान् । यति हुँदाहुँदै पनि किशोरीहरूले स्कूलमा पढाई धानिरहेकै छन् । दश कक्षा र एसएलसी राम्रोसँग पास भइरहेकै छन् । तर, कहिलेकाहीँ किशोरीहरूमा कक्षामा असफलल हुँदा (विशेष गरी एसएलसीमा असफल हुँदा) आत्महत्या समेत गर्ने प्रवृत्ति पनि देखापरेको छ । किशोरीहरू झ् तिमीहरूले के बुझ्नुपर्छ भने परीक्षामा एकचोटि असफल हुँदा दिन्दगी नै खतम भयो भन्ने विचार कहिल्यै गर्नुहुँदैन । उखानै छ, “घोडा चढ्ने लड्छ” ।

aruna upretyपरीक्षामा असफल हुँदैमा, अब त जिन्दगीको सबै कुरा सिद्धियो, विष खाएर आत्महत्या गर्छु भन्यौ र त्यसो गर्‍यौ भने तिमीहरूले आफ्ना परिवारलाई झन् ठूलो दुख पो दिन्छौ त । स्याङजामा नीशा (नाम फेरिएको) नामकी किशोरी ग्रामीण स्वास्थ्य शिक्षा सेवा गुठी अन्तर्गत छात्रवृत्ति पाएर पढिरहेकी थिइन् । तिनले बढी मेहनत गरेकी थिइन्, स्कूल जान । सानैमा पोलियो भएकाले उनलाई आमाले बोकेर स्कूल पुर्‍याउँथिन् । एसएलसी पास गरेपछि नीशाले उच्च शिक्षा अध्ययन गरी शिक्षिका बन्ने इच्छा राख्थिन् । उनलाई छात्रावृत्ति दिने संंस्थाले उनको अध्ययन सकिएपछि स्कूलमा नै शिक्षिकाको काम मिलाइदिने भनेर छलफल गरिरहेको थियो । नीशाले पोलियोलाई जितेर एसएलसी जाँच दिइन् । मेहनत गर्दागर्दै पनि उनी फेल भइन् । पोलियो जस्तो भयानक रोगले पीडित भए पनि बडो साहस गरेर दश कक्षासम्म पुगेकी नीशाले आवेशमा आएर आत्महत्या गरिन् । उनले यदि एकछिन् धैर्य गरेको भए आफ्नो दुःख कसैलाई बिसाएको भए, आमासँग रोएको भए शायद भोलिका दिनले उनको भविष्य उज्यालो बनाउने थियो । तर, फेल हुँदा साहस गुमाइन् । एकचोटि परीक्षामा फेल भए र के भयो त, अर्कोपटक पास हुन्छु नि भन्ने विचार गर्नुपर्छ ।

नाम चलेका विद्वान, डाक्टर, वकील, प्रोफेसरहरू सबैजना कहिले न कहिले परीक्षामा असफल भएका थिए । त्यसैले एसएलसीमा एकचोटि फेल हुँदैमा तिमीहरूले आत्महत्या गर्ने विचार नगर्नू । संसारमा ठूला नाम चलेका महिला र पुरुषहरूले जीवनको अनेक परीक्षामा असफल भएर पनि धैर्य गरेका हुनाले नै सफल भएका हुन् । नीशालाई पढाउन र तलब भनेर छुट्याइएको केहि पैसा अब उनी पढेको स्कूलमा उनकै नाममा राखेर संस्थाले केहि गर्नेछ । तर, निशा बाँचेको भए अझ कति काम गर्नसक्थिन् । संस्थाले पनि उनलाई मद्दत गथ्र्यो । त्यसैले किशोरीहरू झ् तिमीहरू पढ, परीक्षा देऊ, एकचोटिमा पास नभए फेरि देऊ र पास होऊ । साहसी र धैर्यवान् बन है ।

यो पत्र पढ्ने तिमीहरूमध्ये कतिपय गाउँघरका र कतिपय शहरका सरकारी स्कूलमा वा ११ – १२ कक्षामा पढिरहेका छौ होला । अहिलेको आधुनिक परिवेशमा पनि कति बहिनीहरूले चाहिँ ८-९ कक्षा पढेर छोडेका छौ होला । कतिपय कामको बोझले वा आमाबुवाले अब पढ्न पुग्यो भनेर स्कूल छोडाइदिएका होलान् । सुदूरका कतिपय किशोरी बहिनीहरू त त्यहाँको सांस्कृतिक अवस्थाको कारणले अस्वस्थ भएर स्कूल जानै नसकेका होलान् । तराईतिरका कतिपय आमाबुवाले दाइँजो दिन गाह्रो हुन्छ भनेर सानैमा विवाह गरेर तिमीहरूलाई ठूलो भार दिएको होलान् । कतिपय किशोरीहरू चाहिँ स्कूलमा पढ्दापढ्दै कसैसँग प्रेम गरेर, घरबाट भागेर विवाह गरेका होलान् र केहि समयपछि “बेकाममा विवाह गरिएछ, अहिले नर्कजस्तो भयो” भन्ने भएको होला । कतिपय किशोरी अवस्थामा नै आमा बनेर सन्तानलाई पाल्न दिनरात मेहनत गरेका होलान् । आमा बनेपछि श्रीमान् वा पे्रमी भागेर बेपत्ता भएपछि धोका भयो भनेर कतिपयले आत्महत्याको प्रयास पनि गरेका होलान् । यस्तै यस्तै समस्याबाट कतिपय जिन्दगीदेखि नै आजित भएका होलान् ।

कतिपय किशोरीहरू पढेर राम्रो काम गर्छु भन्ने भावना बोकेर पढिरहेका छौ होला । अहिलेको खुला परिवेश, रेडियो, टीभी, पत्रिका आदिबाट ज्ञान पनि प्राप्त गरेका छौ होला । कतिपय स्कूलमा पढ्ने किशोरीहरूले “केटा साथी भएन भने त अरूका अगाडि लाज हुन्छ” भनेर सम्बन्ध पनि गरेका छौ होला । शारीरिक संरचना कस्तो हुन्छ, कसरी गर्भवती भइन्छ, किन किशोर अवस्थामा यौनसम्पर्क राख्न हुँदैन भन्ने ज्ञानको अभावले यौनसम्पर्क राखी कतिपयले गर्भपतन पनि गराएका छौ होला ।

नेपालमा गर्भपतनको सुविधा हुनुपर्छ भनेर आवाज उठाएर लामो सङ्घर्ष गरेपछि आजभन्दा ८ वर्षअघि गर्भपतनको सुविधा विभिन्न ठाउँमा पुगेको छ । त्यहाँ किशोरीहरू पनि गर्भपतन गराउन आउने कुरा प्रकासमा आएको छ । आफ्नो शरीरमाथि आफ्नै अधिकार हुन्छ भन्ने कुरालाई ध्यानमा राखेर हेर्ने हो भने किशोरीहरूले एउटा कुरा बुझ्नुपर्छ, कि सानो उमेरमा राखिने यौनसम्पर्क र प्रेमको नाममा आफ्नो जिम्मेवारीबोध नगरी यौनसम्पर्क र गर्भवती हुनुको अर्थ हो,- तिमीहरूले आफ्नो शरीरलाई आदर गरेका छैनौं । तिमीहरूले प्रेमलाई केवल यौनसम्बन्धसँग मात्रै जोडेर हेर्छौ र, “यौनसम्पर्क भएर के भो त ?, गर्भपतन गराइहाल्छु नि !”, भन्ने विचार गर्छौ । यदि यस्तो हो भने तिमीहरूले ठूलो भूल गरिरहेका छौ । सबभन्दा पहिले त किशोरावस्थामा यौनसम्पर्क गर्दा आफ्नो शरीरमाथि के के समस्या हुनसक्छ भन्ने कुरा जानीसकिएको हुँदैन । तिमीहरूमध्ये कमैलाई थाहा होला कि किशोरावस्थामा यौनसम्पर्क गर्दा पाठेघरको क्यान्सर हुने सम्भावना हुन्छ । फेरि यदि गर्भ रहयो भने गर्भपतनको सुविधा छ भने पनि तिमीहरूलाई अनेकौं कठिनाई पर्न सक्छ । सानो उमेरमा शरीर नै राम्रोसँग परिपक्व नभएकाले यौनसम्बन्ध राखेपछि, प्रजनन स्वास्थ्यमा नकारात्मक असर पर्छ । यदि तिमीहरू गर्भवती भयौ भने सामाजिक संरचनाले घरका मानिसहरूलाई भन्न नसकेर, अब के गर्ने, कसो गर्ने भन्ने चिन्ताले छटपटिएर मानसिक रूपमा पनि अस्वस्थ हुन सक्छौ ।

आजभन्दा २४ वर्षअघि जब म भर्खर डाक्टर पास गरेर प्रसूति गृहमा काम गर्दै थिएँ, मैले दशओटा जति यस्ता घटनाहरू देखें । एउटा घटना त मेरो छिमेकीमा नै भएको थियो । एकजना गरीब महिला जो विभिन्न ठाउँमा भाँडा माझेर जीविका चलाउँथिन्, उनकी रेखा नामकी १७ वर्षीया छोरी थिइन् । रेखा स्कूल जान्थिन् । स्कूल पढ्दा पढ्दै रेखा कसैको प्रेममा फसिन् र मनकामनातिर जाँदा उनको शारीरिक सम्पर्क भएछ । अनि गर्भवती भइन् । चार-पाँच महीनापछि उनकी आमाले रेखालाई त बान्ता भइरहन्छ, खाने रूचि छैन, हेरिदिनोस् न भनेर मकहाँ ल्याइन् । मैले रेखालाई जाँच गरें, पेट ठूलो भएको त देखें, तर गर्भ रहेको शंका नै भएन । म भर्खरकी शिकारू थिएँ । मैले आफूभन्दा वरिष्ठ स्त्रीरोग विशेषज्ञलाई जाँचिदिन आग्रह गरें । जाँच गरेपछि डाक्टरले मलाई भन्नुभयो, “के हो अरूणा झ्, यस्तो जाबो कुरा पनि पत्ता लगाउन नसकेको झ् उनी त ७ महीनाकी गर्भवती छिन् ।” म त हागाँबाट झरेजस्तै भएँ । मैले भनें, “तर उनको विवाह त भएको छैन”, डाक्टरले भन्नुभयो, “गर्भ रहन विवाह गर्नैपर्दैन, सोध्नु रेखालाई ।”

अनि पो रेखाले बेली बिस्तार लगाइन् । एउटा निजी क्लिनिकमा लगेर उनको सात महीनाको गर्भपतन गराइयो । त्यस बेला डाक्टरले भन्नुभएको थियो, “तपाईंकी बहिनी जस्तो भन्ठानेर मात्र यो गरेकी हुँ । यती सानो उमेरमा पनि गर्भवती हुने हो र ।” त्यो घटनापछि रेखाको जीवन नै बदलियो । उनी परिवारबाट अपहेलित भइन् । २४ वर्षपछि पनि अहिले उनी मानसिक रूपमा केहि दुःखी छिन् । उनले पढाई छोडिन् । उनको विवाह गर्ने उमेर पनि बित्यो । रेखा त काठमाडौंमा थिइन् र उनको सुरक्षित तरीकाले गर्भपतन भएको थियो । तर, गाउँघरमा त शायद कति रेखाहरूले असुरक्षित तरीकाले गर्भपतन गराएर ज्यान गुमाएका होलान्, वा विष खाएर आत्महत्या गरेका होलान् ।

गर्भ नरहोस् भन्नका लागि यौनसम्पर्क गरेपछि “इमर्जेन्सी औषधि” तिमीहरू धेरैले खाएका छौ होला । तर, यसरी जथाभावी औषधि प्रयोग गर्दा तिमीहरूको स्वास्थ्यमा कति नराम्रो असर पर्छ भन्ने कुरा तिमीहरूलाई थाहा छ कि छैन ? त्यसमाथि पनि जोसँग यौनसम्पर्क भएर गर्भ रहन्छ, उसले पछि सहानुभूति राख्ला भनेर पनि भन्न सकिँदैन । किशोर अवस्थाको प्रेम पानीको फोका झैं हुन्छ । अनि यस्तो घटनापछि तिमीहरूलाई पढाइमा मन लागाउन पनि गाह्रो हुन्छ । शहर र गाउँघरमा धेरै किशोरीहरूले स्वतन्त्रता छ भनेर, स्कूलको सट्टा घुम्न गएको र आवेशमा आएर यौनसम्पर्क भएपछि पछुताएको पनि देखेकी छु ।

किशोरीहरू ! तिमीहरूलाई पहिलेको तुलनामा धेरै सुविधा छन् । तर, उपयोग गर्नुको सट्टा तिमीहरूले दुरूपयोग गर्‍यौ भने त राम्रो भएन नि झ् नैतिकता र अनैतिकताको दृष्टिकोणले यौनसम्पर्कलाई हेर्ने कोशिश गर्नु हुँदैन । तर, तिमीहरूले आफ्नो स्वास्थ्यको ख्याल राखेर शारीरिक र मानसिक रूपमा स्वस्थ हुँदै किशोर अवस्थामा यौनसम्पर्क नगरेकै ठीक हुन्छ । प्रेम गर्नु नराम्रो होइन । यसले त जीवनमा ऊर्जा भर्नुपर्छ, जीवनलाई अघि बढाउन उत्साह दिनुपर्छ, नकि हीनताबोध र सामाजिक अपहेलना ।
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मनोज गजुरेल र जितु उस्तै, धुर्मुस प्रथम श्रेणीमा

२८ जेठ, काठमाडौं । मंगलबार सार्वजनिक भएको एसएलसीको नतिजा कतिका लागि राम्रो भयो, कतिलाई नराम्रो । डिस्टिङसन, फस्ट र सेकेन्ड डिभिजन आयो भनेर मख्ख पर्ने पनि छन् । थर्डमै चित्त बुझाउने पनि छन् । पास हुनेभन्दा फेल हुने धेरै छन् । तर चर्चा चाहिँ पास हुनेको मात्रै छ । एसएलसीको नतिजा सार्वजनिक भएको दिन त्योभन्दा माथि पढिसकेका र पढेर सकाइसकेकाहरुले पनि विगतको याद गर्ने गर्छन् । आज अनलाइनखबरले देशका तीनजना हास्य कलाकारसँग उबेलाको एसएलसी नतिजाको अनुभवबारे छोटो कुराकानी गरेको छ ।

नेपाल टेलिभिजनको चर्चित हास्य सिरियल जिरे खुर्सानीमा कलाकार जितु नेपाल सिरियलमा भन्ने गर्नुहुन्छ- ‘थर्ड डिभिजन ल्याएर एसएलसी पास गरेको मान्छे हुँ, के सोच्या छ..।’ तर वास्तवमा जितुले थर्ड डिभिजन होइन, सेकेन्ड डिभिजनमा एसएलसी पास गर्नुभएको हो । मंगलबार एसएलसीको नतिजा सार्वजनिक भएको दिन अनलाइनखबरसितको कुराकानीमा कलाकार नेपालले आफ्नो बेला सम्झँदै भन्नुभयो मुन्द्रेको एसएलसी

‘मैले २०४८ सालमा सिन्धुपाल्चोकको जाल्पा माविबाट एसएलसी दिएको थिएँ । अहिलेजस्तो पहिले नै नतिजा आउँदैछ भन्ने थाहा पनि हुँदैनथियो । बिहान रेडियोले रिजल्ट भयो भनेको दिन म काठमाडौंको जडिबुटीमै थिएँ । तर, पनि दिउँसो मात्र गोरखापत्र हेर्ने मौका मिल्यो । मलाई मेरो सिम्बोल नम्बर अझै याद छ ।

’यू’ थियो । अन्तिममा यू भएको हुनाले उतीर्ण हुन्छु भनेर मैले व्याख्या गर्ने गरेको थिएँ । नभन्दै उतीर्ण भएँ । सेकेण्ड डिभिजनमा पास भएँ । त्योबेला मेरो स्कूलबाट ४०/४५ जनाले परीक्षा दिएकोमा म समेत जम्मा ५ जनामात्र पास भयौं । उबेला त्यसरी पास हुनुको महत्व नै बेग्लै थियो ।

मलाई लाग्छ कि डिस्टिङसन, कि थर्ड डिभिजनको महत्व छ । बीचको फस्ट र सेकेन्ड भन्या त उस्तै हो । त्यसैले मैले आफ्नो टेलिसिरियलमा थर्ड डिभिजनलाई महत्व दिएका हौं ।’

म दुई नम्बरको एसएसलसी

जितु नेपालजस्तै अर्का हास्यकलाकार मनोज गजुरेलले पनि ०४८ सालमै एसएलसी दिनुभएको हो । ’मैले काठमाडौंको पद्मोदय माविबाट एसएलसी दिएको हुँ । नतिजा आउने दिन काठमाडौंमै थिएँ । लौ आज नतिजा प्रकाशित हुन्छ भनेर सबैले हल्ला गरे । एकाबिहानै गोरखापत्र संस्थानमा गएर लाइन बसियो । बल्लतल्ल भीडमा धकेलाधकेल गरेर गोरखापत्र पाइयो ।

हेर्दै गाको, सेकेन्ड डिभिजनमा पास भएछु । मलाई फस्ट डिभिजनभन्दा सेकेन्ड डिभिजन नै राम्रो लाग्छ । फस्ट हुनका लागि धेरैजना प्रयास गर्छन् । तर, एउटा मात्रै सफल हुन्छ । दुई नम्बर त सधैं उस्तै । म कलाकारितामा पनि दुई नम्बरको हुँ । एसएलसीमा पनि सेकेन्ड डिभिजन, कलाकारितामा पनि दुई नम्बर ।

धुर्मुस एसएलसीका दिन भूमिगत

अर्का हास्यकलाकार सीताराम कट्टेल धुर्मुसलाई भने पास होला जस्तै लागेको थिएन । ‘मैले झापा गौरादहको ज्ञानज्योति माविबाट एसएलसी दिएको हो । त्योबेला कक्षामा सेकेन्ड हुन्थें । तर एसएलसीमा गणित धेरै बिग्रेको थियो । गणितमा फेल हुन्छु जस्तो लागेकाले रिजल्ट भएको दिन कतै गइँन । घरभित्रै लुकेर बसें ।

भोलिपल्ट स्कूलमा रिजल्ट टाँसेको रहेछ । साथीहरुले तँ त फस्ट डिभिजनमा पास भएको छस् भनेर सुनाए । मलाई पत्यार नै लागेन । गएर गोरखापत्र हेरें । साँच्चै फस्ट डिभिजनमा पास भएको रैछु । साहै्र गदगद भएँ ।

परीक्षामा असफल भए पनि अवसर नै अवसर २९ जेठ, काठमाडौं । सधैंका वर्षहरुमा जस्तै यसपालि पनि एसएलसीमा जाँच दिएकामध्ये आधाभन्दा धेरै विद्यार्थी फेल भए । परीक्षामा असफल भएपछि निराशा र चिन्ता हुनु स्वभाविक नै हो । फेल भएको पीडा सहन नसकेर कतिपयले आत्महत्या जस्तो कठोर निर्णय समेत गर्ने गर्छन् । तर, एसएलसीमा फेल हुनु नै जिन्दगीमा असफल हुनु होइन । घोडा चढ्ने मान्छे लड्छ भने झैं जाँच दिने मान्छे फेल हुन्छन् । यसरी पढाइमा असफल र फेल भएका मान्छे पढेकाभन्दा ‘सेलिबि्रटी’ भएका उदाहरण प्रशस्त छन्  ।

एसएलसीमा फेल भएर निराश भएकाहरुको मनोबल बढाउन सामाजिक सञ्जालमा यस्तै उदाहरणीय व्यक्तित्वहरु चर्चा हुन थालेको छ । कतिले नेपालकै चर्चित व्यक्तिहरुको प्रसंग जोडेका छन् भने कतिले विश्वकै धनी व्यक्ति र वैज्ञानिक सम्मलाई सम्झन पुगेका छन् । ’बोर्डफस्ट भएर बाबुराम हुनुभन्दा त फेल भएर हरिवंश हुनु नै जाति’ एसएलसी रिजल्ट भएलगत्तै सामाजिक सञ्जालमा सबैभन्दा बढी देखिने उद्गार हो यो । पूर्वप्रधानमन्त्री एवं एकीकृत नेकपा माओवादीका उपाध्यक्ष डा. भट्टराई ०२५ सालको एसएलसीमा ‘बोर्डफस्ट’ हुनुभएको थियो । पीएचडीसम्म पढेका उहाँलाई सबैले विद्वानको रुपमा मान्छन् ।

तर राजनीतिक रुपमा भने उहाँलाई मन नपराउनेको संख्या धेरै छ । अर्का पात्र वरिष्ठ हास्य कलाकार हरिवंश आचार्य एसएलसीमा फेल हुनुभएको थियो । उहाँको पुस्तक ‘चिना हराएको मान्छे’ पढेपछि धेरैले यो कुरा थाहा पाए । एसएलसीमा फेल भएका आचार्य सामाजिक क्षेत्रमा भट्टराई भन्दा बढी लोकपि्रय हुनुहुन्छ । त्यसैले सामाजिक सञ्जालमा भट्टराई र आचार्यलाई तुलना गर्दै एसएलसीमा फेल हुनेहरुको मनोबल बढाउन खोजिएको हो ।

परीक्षामा असफल हुँदैमा निराश हुनु पर्दैन भन्ने अरु उदाहरण पनि छन् । सामाजिक सञ्जालमा पढ्न पाइने केही उदाहरण हेरौं :

-“I failed in some subjects in exam, but my friend passed in all. Now he is an engineer in Microsoft and I am the owner of Microsoft.” ― Bill Gates
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- संसारमा सबैभन्दा धेरै आविष्कार गरेर नाम कमाउन सफल थोमस एल्भा एडिसनलाई १२ वर्षको उमेरमा स्कूलबाट निकाला गरिएको थियो ।

- अल्बर्ट आइन्स्टाइनलाई मन्दबुद्धिको केटो भनी स्कुलमा हेला गरिएको थियो । उनी कलेजको प्रवेश परिक्षामा असफल भएका थिए ।

- विलियम शेक्सपीयर कक्षा ५ मा दुई पटक फेल भएका थिए ।

- रविन्द्रनाथ ठाकुर म्याट्रिकुलेसन (SLC) मा सात पटक फेल भएका थिए ।

- महात्मा गान्धी म्याट्रिकुलेसनमा तेश्रो डिभिजनमा पास भएका थिए ।

- विन्स्टन चर्चिल कक्षा ६ मा फेल भएका थिए ।

- लियो टाल्सटाय कलेजबाट भागेका थिए ।

- ब्रुस लीले पनि पढाइलाई चटक्कै छोडेका थिए ।

- जोन डी रकेफेलर निरक्षर थिए ।

- म्याक्सिम गोर्की कहिल्यै विद्यालय गएनन् ।

- माइकल फराडे, विल गेट्स, स्टेफन स्पेल बर्ग, पिटर जेनिग्स, स्टिभ जब्स,हेरी एस ट्रुमन आदि कलेज नै गएका थिएनन् ।

- २०५ अमेरिकी अर्बपतीहरू कलेज नै नगएको तथ्याकं छ ।

फेल हुनेलाई जताततै अवसर

पास हुनेहरुलाई उच्चशिक्षा पढ्ने ठाउँ भएजस्तै एसएलसी असफल हुनेहरुका लागि पनि जिन्दगी बनाउने बाटो प्रशस्त छन् । ‘एसएलसी दिने उमेर भनेको कमाउने उमेर हो, कमाउनको लागि पास हुनैपर्छ भन्ने छैन’ शिक्षाविद डा. विद्यानाथ कोइरालाले अनलाइनखबरसित भन्नुभयो-’सकिन्छ एक वर्ष कुरेर जाँच दिने, हैन भने सीप सिकेर कमाउन थाल्ने ।’ दुई विषयसम्म मात्र अनुतीर्ण हुनेले आउँदो साउन २० गतेदेखि पुरक परीक्षा दिन पाउँछन् । पुरक परीक्षामा पास भएमा यही वर्ष कलेज पढ्न पाइन्छ । अर्थात अहिले फेल भएर पनि पुरकमा पास भएमा उच्च शिक्षा पढाईमा कुनै घाटा लाग्दैन । दुई विषयभन्दा बढीमा अनुतीर्ण हुनेहरुले भने अर्को वर्ष एसएलसी दिनुपर्छ । ‘एक वर्ष पर्खंदैमा भविष्य बिग्रिदैन’ कोइरालाले भन्नुभयो ।

पढ्न मन लागेन भने पनि केही छैन । ‘तरकारी खेती, पशुपालन लगायत व्यवसायिक कृषि पेशाको लागि एसएलसी पास गर्नै पदैन’ शिक्षाविद कोइरालाले भन्नुभयो-’व्यवसायिक कृषि पेशा अपनाएर धेरैले राम्रो आम्दानी गर्ने गरेका छन् ।’यस्तै मोवाईल मर्मत, कम्प्युटर मर्मत, रेडियो र टेलिभिजन मर्मत, मोटरसाइकल मर्मतको तालिमको लागि पनि एसएलसी पास गर्न पर्दैन । ‘अरुले गरेको हेरेर र तालिम लिएर धेरैले यस्ता सीपमूलक कामबाट आम्दानी गरेका छन्’ कोइरालाले भन्नुभयो-’अब पढाई मात्र ठूलो कुरा होइन, लगनशिलता र सृजनशिलता महत्वपूर्ण पक्ष हो, लगनशील हुने हो भने असफल मान्छे पनि जिन्दगीमा सफल हुन सक्छ ।’